All I can say is people are generally nice but it are those who are mean that people remember. Is that why some people are mean, so that we can remember? In that case, I rather not remember- all the times I have been let down, stood up, been yelled at, was unwrongfully treated badly, but yet I do remember and sometimes often. I have also forgave all the all of the above people. Hmmm. I guess I will forget now, because history does tend to repeat itself and I rather forget than forgive again.